Send Your Spouse a Handwritten Invitation
The message will read, “You are cordially invited to an evening of foreplay…” or something like it! While a game night might not be the first thing you think of concerning romance ideas, it serves the romantic cause in at least 3 ways.
First, it builds good tension. You know, the kind of tension that makes both of you horny. Second, it reduces bad tension and counters the symptoms of stress that build up in day-to-day life. Third, it helps get you both out of communication ruts. If you have children, it’s so easy for all your interaction to end up being about logistics and coordination of activities.
You have probably already had the idea of enjoying family game nights with your kids. But what about actually enjoying a game alone with your spouse? Sexy, sexy, sexy. Mmmmm…..
Along with being fun, a little competition on foreplay game night can be one of your best romance ideas. It often adds another level of excitement and helps prevent stress from dominating your time together. Let’s see what sorts of games to consider and how you might want to use them to turn up the romance, and the heat, with your spouse:
Instead of Twitter, How About Twister …with a Twist!
You don’t have to stretch your imagination too much to know why a game of tangled bodies can turn up the heat. Of course, this game has been around a long time, but now that you’re all grown up, you can rediscover a whole new angle to the game. Now that you and your spouse are looking for games to get the blood pumping again, consider rethinking this classic game. Yes, it’s one of my favorite romance ideas.
To add a little extra spice to your grownup version, slip into your prettiest, softest, and even skimpiest nightwear. It can get pretty silly, but isn’t that why you got married in the first place? Have a few laughs and watch the romance build a bit. And, those sore muscles could even lead to a pleasant rubdown for both of you!
Board Games to Bring Out the Kid in You
Rekindle those fond feelings for each other by taking a trip through your youth. Romance often follows a night of frivolity and laughter because the normal, everyday symptoms of stress work against romance. Playing games that are silly and fun is a sure way to bring on a giggle and more! Of course, you can tweak these board games a little to turn your game night into a night that makes you blush, and fall in love all over again. Some suggestions for board games to fill the evening with fun, your best romance ideas, and a bit of friendly competition are:
- Monopoly – buy properties using romantic or sexy bartering instead of money. Hmmm….Let’s see…What do I win if you land on my hotel….?
- Sorry – play with no holds barred then spend the rest of the night making up.
- Candy Land – make your sweet surprises a bit more grownup.
- Battleship – fast paced and full of competitive moves which get the blood boiling.
- Checkers – perhaps ‘king me’ could take on a whole new meaning.
- Chess – Oh, come on! Use your imagination!
Strip Poker, Card Games, and No-Brainer Romance Ideas
You can take any card game you enjoy playing and make the stakes a bit more romantic or tantalizing. Instead of playing poker or gin rummy for money or matchsticks, play for special treats, like backrubs or a sexy dessert, or whatever heats up your spouse. You can even create your own deck of cards for your game using symbols that suggest what’s in store for the winner… or loser. Of course, no one really loses at these games!
The most well-known adult card game is probably strip poker. You can make this game even more fun by coming up with a variety of inventive stakes the ‘loser’ must pay. How about doing a sexy dance? Think of a dozen or so grownup treats your spouse would enjoy winning, then set up your game table and get those cards shuffled.
A romantic game night is all about the two of you bonding together and having fun, maybe with a few intimate moments added. Send the kids to Grandma’s house for the night and play a few games of your own!
